| First, I\'ll need to explain what Law of Attraction | | | | Want to know how to attract your ideal mate? |
| is and how it works. You see, the Law of | | | | Build a list of all the things you didn\'t like about |
| Attraction states that you\'ll attract to your life | | | | your current or last mate/partner. This list, we\'ll |
| whatever you give your attention, energy and | | | | call \"contrast,\" will help you understand. For |
| focus to, whether wanted or unwanted--emphasis | | | | example, if your list of negative things about |
| on the unwanted. The \"vibes\" that you put out | | | | \'past mates\' includes someone that doesn\'t |
| (also called vibrations) are either negative vibes or | | | | take you to dinner, spend time with you, doesn\'t |
| positive vibes, and at every moment, the Law of | | | | uplift you, or spends too much time away |
| Attraction is responding to the vibes you are | | | | travelling, now you\'ll be able to see why you\'re |
| offering by giving you more of the same, | | | | attracting this. Your list makes it clear, |
| whether wanted or unwanted. | | | | remembering that whatever you place your |
| If you are curious about what it is that you are | | | | attention to, you\'ll get more of it. |
| offering vibrationally in any area of your life, you | | | | The Law of Attraction can only bring to you what |
| simply need to take a look at that area and see | | | | you give your attention, energy and focus to, so |
| what you\'re getting… it\'s a perfect match. | | | | change what you\'re focusing your attention on |
| Mentally take a brief inventory of different | | | | by asking yourself, \'What do I want?\' When you |
| relationships that you have in your life. For some | | | | catch yourself thinking or saying what you don\'t |
| people, there is a mixture of the kinds of people | | | | want, in that very moment, state what you do |
| they have in their lives; some who support and | | | | want. The words and the vibration will change. |
| uplift them, and others who are negative. So why | | | | Remember, you can only hold one vibration at a |
| do you attract negative people? | | | | time, so make it a good one! |
| In both of these cases, you\'re already | | | | In the example above, if we were to ask, \"What |
| experiencing the Law of Attraction. As you enjoy | | | | do you want?\" after each of those negative |
| and appreciate certain people in your life, in that | | | | statements, our new list would bring us clarity |
| moment, you are offering positive vibrations. The | | | | about our ideal mate and would sound like: \"My |
| Law of Attraction is unfolding and orchestrating | | | | ideal mate takes me to dinner often, spends |
| whatever needs to happen to bring you more of | | | | ample time with me, uplifts me, and spends a |
| the same. And as you notice and pay attention to | | | | pleasing amount of time at home.\" Can you feel |
| the negative people in your life and the things that | | | | the difference? It\'s this feeling, or \"vibe\" that |
| irritate you about them, you\'ll see the Law of | | | | the Law of Attraction is responding to. Make |
| Attraction unfold to bring you more of the same. | | | | sense? Go ahead and try it. Shift your attention |
| By shifting your focus and attention to what you | | | | to what you do want and know in that moment |
| do want, then you\'ll change the results | | | | the Law of Attraction is responding to your |
| accordingly. | | | | vibration. The results will astonish you. |