The 7 Word Sentence That Can Sabotage Your Success

“Alone we can do so little; together we canspecific task to do and then you constantly check
do so much.” - Helen Keller to see if she is performing the work to your
Would you like to know the #1 reason whystandards. You even go so far as to give her
CEO’s, business owners, and managers get‘helpful hints’ on what she should be
so bogged down and end up sabotaging their owndoing… according to your vision. When you
success? It’s a simple 7 word sentence thatassign work to members on your team, stand
speaks volumes about you and how you operateback and let them do their job! Definitely set
your business, and that sentence is, “Noguidelines for progress and completion. Always let
thanks, I can do it myself.” Not only do youthem know that they can come to you if they
believe you can do every single thing withoutneed SUPPORT or have further questions.
anyone’s help, you often don’t want toDon’t stifle their creativity and enthusiasm by
relinquish control over your business/company andconstantly looking over their shoulder as they do
the day to day operations. In fact, that is the onetheir work. I’m sure you have better things
thing you have to become more skilful at doing into do with your time. 
order to be the big thinker and implementHere are 2 sure-fire solutions to role modeling
strategies to create a well-oiled operation. great leadership practices:
In order to achieve the high level of success that1. First and foremost, remember that you will get
you desire, you must be willing to ask and acceptmore accomplished and achieve better results
SUPPORT from your team. when you work as a team. Notice that the word
I frequently hear two complaints from my clients:‘I’ doesn’t appear in the word
1 – “I have too much to do,” and 2‘team.’ Alone, you can only do so much,
– “I’m not getting the results I wantbut by enrolling others in your vision you can
from my team.” When I start probing andaccomplish much more and in a shorter time
asking questions, I find out that one of two thingsperiod. 
are happening in their business: either they’re2. Learn how to make effective requests.
not delegating or they’re micro-managing theirLeaders often don’t get the results they
team. Both can wreak havoc in your business. want because they are not specific. Requests
Let me spell it out for you. have to have 4 components – a speaker, a
Delegation. When you become the leader, you golistener, action to be performed, and a time
from being task oriented to that of a visionary. Inframe to be completed. Give clear instructions for
order to do that, you have to be willing to ask fortheir performance on the project. You don’t
SUPPORT. And that means that you have to lethave to tell them how to do it, but you do have
go of the day to day details. For some letting goto tell them what you want and by when. 
of certain tasks can be daunting. Why? BecauseWhen you incorporate these practices, you
we think that it will take too long to explain it tobecome a purpose driven leader as opposed to
someone or they won’t do it right, so wecrisis manager. You’ll achieve more
just do it ourselves. I can promise you that kindproductivity, more effectiveness, more success,
of thinking will cause you a whole lot of havoc andwith a lot less stress if you incorporate these
you’ll end up doing 15 things at once. steps in your daily business operation.
Micro-managing is when you give “Jane” a