High Tension for the Buyer and Seller of Real Estate Can Be Reduced

Tensions can run high in both the selling andcomfortable process with open, full and honest
buying of real estate. After all, there is a lot ofcommunication between the agent and the client
money and emotion involved! There are also timeat all times.Many of our sellers would like us to
pressures and numerous privacy issues to dealfind a buyer in a week or less for their property.
with. The sale and purchase of real estate can beInterestingly enough, it is often the property that
a lengthy process involving numerousis most difficult to find a buyer for that has the
professionals from many fields.The Real Estatemost impatient seller.Even after a property is
Center at Texas A&M University asked 3,000chosen by a buyer, there is a lot of time and
Texas home buyers to describe their recentwork still needed from all those involved. The
purchase, about 400 replied. Their responsestime, the continued negotiations, the inspections,
showed how stressful buying a home can be, forreports, and evaluations needed, all the calls and
buyers and sellers. The Realtors and attorneysappointments that need to be made on behalf of
who try to keep all tensions at bay in order toall parties involved almost always take far more
complete the transaction also feel the burdens oftime than anyone not directly involved can realize.
stress!"The process is grueling in the best ofThis is usually frustrating to everyone. The sellers
circumstances, and the severe sellers' market ofas well as the buyers often feel they are stuck in
recent times only increased the stress," says Dr.quicksand, unable to move or do anything without
Jack C. Harris, Center research economist. "Insinking further into the mire. At the same time --
conjunction with Lawyers Title Company, the Realthat same quicksand of details required to
Estate Center asked recent home buyers aboutcomplete the transaction seems at times to be
their buying experience and what changes theyfilled with alligators ready to bite and take them
think would make the process more buyerdown anyway. In some ways, that is all too true.
friendly." (quote from Real Estate NewsAnd, it is the duty of all the Realtors involved to
Information Service Feb. 24, 2001)The finalkeep our clients and customers as comfortable as
question on the survey was, "If you could changepossible during these trying times of details and
anything about the home buying process, whatdifficulties.The Realtor usually spends a good deal
would that be?" Almost a third answered theof time trying to manage the lender(s) and get
question, and most of them expressedthe money required to bring the deal to closing.
dissatisfaction about some phase of theOften this is the most difficult part of the
process.Understandably some of the complaintstransaction, even when the buyers and sellers are
were about circumstances beyond anyone'seasy to work with. Usually, the first contact with
control. This included high prices, interest rates,a lender is all roses and sunshine. All too often
the lack of listings in a specific area, where theyhowever, the clouds and thorns of problems are
wanted to buy, etc.However, all of us Realtorssoon evident. We Realtors are often fully
can learn much from some of the things that WEemployed trying to get all the requirements
can, and should, do something about. Many of thefulfilled for the lender and the purchaser and when
folks surveyed felt that the Realtor did notthose are complete we work to make certain the
perform up to their expectations. They werepromised funds are still available, approved and
especially miffed when the Realtor assumed tooready for closing, ON TIME.At the closing, there is
much, that they understood what was going on,another 2% to 3% or, in some few cases, even
and didn't keep them well enough informed. Inmore of the purchase price involved at closing for
such a pressure cooker of financial and timeeach the buyer and the seller. The long list of
constraints, the unfamiliar territory of buying andexpensive items often seems too costly to both
selling a property can be nerve wracking!Manythe buyer and the seller. Some folks find this
buyers and sellers need to be reassured andirritating and feel it to be unfair. Some wonder
comforted. It is sometimes hard for the Realtorwhy there are so many fees and services that
to know which of the dozens or even hundredsfind their way to the settlement table and may
of people they are working with at one time needwonder if the fees and services were even
the most attention. Some of the Realtors' clientsnecessary.The myriad details involved with the
felt the agent did not take enough time withfinding, selecting, negotiating, contracting and
them. This was true even for some buyers whotransferring of ownership and funds at final
had a Buyer's Agent under contract to work onsettlement is time consuming, detailed, and often
their behalf alone.We Realtors should alert andchallenging.People are accustomed to buying most
educate our clients, whether they be sellers orthings instantaneously and getting instant
buyers, to the complexities and details of the realgratification for their decisions. Especially for those
estate transaction. Some buyers feel that theyof us who use the Internet a lot. In a recent
are rushed through the looking, choosing, buyingsurvey it was shown that most people who
and settling process, and sometimes theypurchase via the Internet want the purchase
are.More and more buyers, especially the mostdelivered to them via overnight service. Although
savvy ones, are using Buyer's Agents. WhenKate and I do most of our promotion, marketing
there is a Buyer's Agency Agreement signed,and communications via the speedy Internet --
most buyers expect far more service. Some feelwe are not usually able to deliver the completed
that they don't always get it. In fact, according tosale in less than a month or two.Many (let's be
the survey, 70% of those who had a Buyer'smore honest and blunt) actually MOST buyers do
Agent wanted even more care, concern andnot appreciate the legal complexities of taking title
service from their agent than they felt they hadto real estate. They most often, simply do not
received.The sellers, too, felt they had receivedunderstand why it should be so complicated to
too little service, care and attention in manybuy a piece of land or a home, nor do they
cases, for the commission involved. Some seller'sunderstand the complexities of getting them
felt that the selling agent was not responsiveapproved for the best rate and terms in the
enough to them, that calls were not returnedmortgage obligation -- even if they have done it
promptly enough, or that not enough assurance,before.The real estate industry has made great
information, concern and communication wasand consistent accomplishments in speeding up
forthcoming from their agent.Even though it isthe entire buying process; from searching via the
legally the seller who pays the Real EstateWeb to getting mortgage approvals in sometimes
commission, it is really part of the overallan hour (as is the usual case with our in-house
transaction. Many buyers feel that they are thebroker). Even title searches, lien searches,
ones who are really paying that commission. Theyjudgment searches and the typing of the dozens
feel that the several thousand dollar commission isof pages of legal documentation has been
just tacked onto the selling price by the seller andstreamlined with modern devices and techniques.
thus it is they, the buyer, who is ultimately payingHowever, there is another bundle of issues that
more for the property than they should! Buyersslow the process while the aforementioned have
often feel that sellers inflate home prices tosped it up. The litigious society we live in, the
recover the cost of the commission.Somerelatively recent and growing list of written
purchasers want more contact with the sellers ofdisclosure requirements and legal contingencies
the property; before, during and after they decidehave adversely affected the time and ease
on the property and place a contract on it. Manyinvolved. It has limited the progress and speed of
wanted to develop a relationship with the seller ofthe individual parts of the transaction steps at
the property and have direct communication withnearly every point.We, as Real Estate
them between the time of the contract and theProfessionals should, in fact we must, pay special
settlement. Some felt that an agreement wouldattention and take special care in helping buyers
have been more easily arrived at if the sellers andand sellers understand what is going on at each
buyers could have hammered out details instep of the selling and purchasing process. We
person.Other buyers had met with the sellers andneed to make it clear why the various expenses
considered that it had been the biggest error ofincurred at closing are ordinary and necessary. We
the entire process. Most folks felt that theneed to alert our clients and customers to the
insulation of the Realtor(s), keeping the sellers andpotential consequences of each place where they
buyers apart and in communication only viacan be financially and legally harmed or put at risk
written offers and changes to the contract wasby cutting corners. We do our best!Based on
appropriate as it gave them the advantage ofevery available survey, it is evident that the
advice and discussion with their Realtor and timeInternet is growing and soon to be of utmost
to think and discuss things before responding.Aimportance to buyers searching for a home. For
huge part of the work and value that a Realtor orthe month of January, 2001 a review of 37 major
all the Realtors involved bring to the transaction issearch engines showed that Real Estate related
the mediation, conflict resolution, refereeing andsearching and use was the third major use of the
monitoring of communications between buyer andInternet, world wide. In America, it was second
seller. Often that is a huge and difficult task.except for a temporary flurry of interest in
Sometimes it is just too monumental to achievesearching for information on digital cameras which
satisfaction on the part of their client. Often it isbarely put it in third place here also.The Internet
those clients who are most difficult to work withis, however, not the only factor in the overall
that are the least satisfied with their Realtor. Thatsearch. At price ranges of $300,000 and more;
is all part of the job we do. We do our best, fromabout 90% of the first contacts are to a Realtor
our own viewpoint, we try to satisfy thewith an attractive, informative, workable and fast
personality of our clients, and usually that is wellacting Web site. As the price of the home
appreciated!After all, the natural flavor of a buyingdescends, the percentage of buyers using the
and selling transaction is adversarial. The Realtor isWeb decreases. For homes under $100,000, only
like a Gladiator in most cases; going to battle, inabout 25% of our personal response is a result of
an honorable way and according to the rules, onour Web site presence and
behalf of their backer -- their client. There areexpertise.Simultaneously, fewer Realtors instead
many behind-the-scenes conflicts on behalf ofof more, are finding the Web useful according to
clients that never are divulged and shouldn't be. Itour recent survey. The reason is obvious to
is the duty of the Realtor to put all parts of thesome of us; most users want sites to be far
transaction in the best, although truthful, lightmore informative, more private, and want the
possible. A Realtor who transfers the naturalsites to have a lot more content. They want
adversarial animosities between buyer and sellermore pictures, better descriptions, related sales,
does a disservice to his client no matter whichcrime reports, etc. Some of these things are not
side of the transaction is being represented.Mosteven available yet for our market area but the
buyers and sellers comments on the surveybuyers still want them. People would like to rule
evidenced the importance and value of the agentout those homes they are not interested in
in the transaction process. However, it isbefore they even contact a Realtor in most
important that all of us Realtors learn from ourcases -- especially for the more expensive
buyers and sellers, especially to responses theyproperties.Users want the sites to come up faster
give about our profession when they are beingand to be more intuitive of their interests and
surveyed on our service.Nearly every week in ourneeds. People are also reluctant to show what
office, at Long and Foster Realtors, Rehoboththey don't know as it makes them feel vulnerable.
Beach, our manager reads one or more glowingThus we try to have lots of data on our site so
comment letters from our thankful, satisfied andthe sellers and buyers can educate themselves
sometimes elated clients and customers. In fact,before they contact a Realtor; hopefully us!Some
Kate was the overall Service Award Winner forclients seem to realize and appreciate that
the entire year of 1999.From the survey resultsRealtors are also dependent on other
of the Texas A&M University, we as Realtors,professionals to make the home buying
are well advised to learn that respondents praisedtransaction go more safely, more legally proper
especially helpful agents. It is reasonable toand in all ways more smoothly. Buyers do expect
assume the majority who wrote nothing whenthe agent to keep them informed about progress
asked to comment on any dissatisfaction, on thisand to effectively, quickly and professionally
anonymous survey, were well satisfied with thehandle any obstacles to their goals and purposes
service they received from their Realtor(s)."Wein the transaction.The entire process of selling and
had a great experience," wrote one buyer. "Theor buying a property, especially a home, can be
agent made all the difference. She kept us wellnerve wracking and full of tension for everyone
informed almost daily. This was so important toconcerned. Some problems are unavoidable, some
us." While a majority of survey respondents hadare unpredictable, some are created out of
no comment regarding agents, 85% said theynothing by some party to the transaction. Many
would use or recommend the agent again.problems can be resolved or avoided if the sales
(paragraph taken from Real Estate Newsagent provides information, reassurance and
Information Service Feb. 24, 2001)According tosupport to the buyer.In the final analysis, it is up
the survey report, complaints about theto you, the buyer or the seller to be the
complexity of the home buying process fell into"squeaky wheel in need of oil" and call, write,
one of three categories: too complicated, tooe-mail and otherwise let your Realtor know
time-consuming or too costly. Many felt theimmediately when you feel needy of more
process involved too much paperwork.communication, care, solace or help. Our job is
Undoubtedly, they were reacting to theabout 98% invisible to our customers and clients.
numerous, lengthy legal forms they had to signEven when we tell everyone what we are doing,
before, during and after the contracting of theit is almost always hard for them to believe the
property as well as the seemingly almosttime it takes for what seems, to them, a simple
unconfrontable stack of documents requiring atask. We usually have a few dozen customers
signature at closing.It can take a terrific amountand clients at any one time that we are trying to
of time to find and buy a home. We often workservice as if they were the only person in our
with buyers for months seeking the right home.professional lives.If you are our customer or client,
Some of them we've been working with, stayingPLEASE let us know any time you need us!
in touch with, and showing properties to -- forSimultaneously, we will attempt to anticipate your
years. Those with some particular interests mayevery need and difficulty and be working on
find that a "possible" choice for them might onlysolutions before you even tell us. We are partners
come on the market once in a great while! It isin this profession with our customers and clients,
not an easy or comfortable situation for anyoneand the success of every partnership is open and
involved, but the finding and buying or selling of ahonest communication!Now, please let us know
home or property can be made a MUCH morehow we can be of more service to you!